Life as we know it
1. Love being a mom…actually this past year just made me want at least another one baby
2. Less expectations actually means more fun and quality time
3. Healthy and balanced life is the key for joyful everyday living
4. Slowing down is not a bad thing
5. Stealing some time alone with your love one makes your relationship better and more stronger
Have an amazing 2022 guys!!!
xoxo
Love,
Ell
Hello guys,
On this very special for me day I would like to share some thoughts with you… On this day…seven years ago… me and my husband started dating. Seven is very important number for me and I believe is my lucky number…I’m born on 7th of April, my school number was 7 and etc.
Seven years… my longest and meaningful relationship ever…seven years ago I was just a girl who was looking for her greatest love… seven years later I’m a woman who’s trying to keep this sparkle every single day!
But this is not the main topic today. Recently, me and my husband had a lots of misunderstandings between us… I caught him in couple lies…and all this was connected with his best friend and his girlfriend. Long story short we had a serious conversation what marriage and relationship is and how some bad influence could ruin something that you have for so long, something strong and meaningful as your family. Yes, sometimes our friends are not as much friends as we are for them…and that showed us clearly last couple days.
I’m honest person and always go into relationship/ friendship or so with honesty. This is extremely important for me to be able to build trust and fruitful relationship. But unfortunately not everyone in my life responds the same…it turns out that some people in our life that we used to call friends are not…and that sometimes not only hurts, but betrays your faith in this people.
Of course I can forgive…, but I’m truly not sure if I can forget…
My previous me…seven years ago probably would bye for that…but now…I don’t think so… I grow up and become much wiser… at least I believe so 😃
So after all I wanted to share to you guys my advice. Never stop fighting for your happiness, love and the truth. All that matters in this complicated life is your own happiness!
Wishing you all amazing week!
Talk to you soon 💖
XOXO
Yours,
ELL
Hi guys,
Hope all of you are doing well. For the past couple months a lot has been happening and in the meantime everything is still the same ( in a good way of course)
Lately I’m trying to focus on my mental health and stability by practicing more yoga and I feel wonderful, fully positive and energetic after a session. That’s why I decided to talk to you guys today and focus on the inside stability and how important is that for our health and life in general.
Sometimes you get passionate about kind of a sport and than it feels harder to stay on track and be able to make 2-3-5 workouts for a week…, but here is the moment where you should push your self a little, because after couple months it will come naturally to keep your own rhythm…and the same is happening with all other choices me make… sometimes we are the one who are not giving them a chance to improve our lives.
It doesn’t need to be a strict plan that we need to follow…sometimes we need to let ourselves to be spontaneous, to learn to listen our inside voice.
It’s not about the perfect picture, or outfit or captured moment…sometimes it’s worth it just to enjoy your own time/day/ moment…without thinking about what’s next on my list… just truly get your self in those moment and live it…💖
Thank you guys, really…thank you for being with me from the very beginning of this blog journey 💖
Have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Yours,
ELL
Hello guys, it seems like forever from my last post. Today is a very special day for me and I would like to share it with you 💖
On this special day 2 years ago, I said YES to my beloved husband, best friend, partner and everything else what that gorgeous man means to me! And I never regret that!
Of course we had some problems, fights and all that bad energy things that could go through our lives, but that is probably inevitable… We had our bad moments like every other married couple and probably we’re gonna have them again in the future…who knows, but my point is to learn how to accept… to accept the person in front of you with all his negative parts, because everyone has his own bad part. To try to focus more on your love…on the topic why you love this person, not why you are mad at him at this moment…of course this is easy on a daily basis with our every day things… it’s very hard when it comes to more serious things like lies, cheating and betraying the trust between two people in general… in this occasions probably this is not your true half with whom you could spend a happy and joyful life.
There is periods between each couple, but the most important thing of having a healthy and happy marriage is to solve your problems with love and care, to look in the eyes of your partner and remember why you chose to say “yes” to this person exactly and also when something is touched with a positive energy, I strongly believe that that kind of energy is coming back to you…and the opposite…if you start with a negative vibe…all that is coming back to you!
So what I’m trying to say is that this world needs more love and care in general 💖
There is and there are going to be a lot’s of terrible two’s, four’s…tent’s and etc. Let’s try to go through this periods with love and care to our partners. In my opinion, this is the right way to a happy life, marriage and relationship in general… like they says… “until death do us apart”
Have a great day guys!
xoxo
Yours,
ELL
Hello guys,
Today I would like to talk to you about those moments when you feel like everything underneath is falling apart despite all the positive thoughts you have in your mind.
Yes, there is moments like that in everyday life… and yes, those moments pass too… sooner or later
The only difference between going through those moments with as much as possible positive thoughts is that when it’s all gone you would be able to recover faster and easier… and yes, it is hard to actually apply those rules when you are really upset… oh boy, tell me about it… I’m mostly that kind of person who just need one flame… and the fire / storm / scandal is 100% sure… yes, a pure Aries 🙈
But I’m trying… really I’m trying to minimize the problem, not to make it even bigger with a nice fight for example. And yes, for me the positive vibe really helps in most of the times ☺️
So… my advice is to take a deep breath, make a nice dessert instead… or go out (if you can… with all this lockdowns) and enjoy some free quality time 💖
Whatever you choose to do… do it and keep your mind clean from negative thoughts 💖
Have a great week and start of the new month 🍀
xoxo
Yours,
ELL
Hello guys,
How are you in this cold weather. Hope all of you are healthy and happy!
Today I would like to tell you more about how my year started. I decided that 2021 will be different for us, because of the all changes we made last complicate year.
So first I decided to turn into myself and start a really healthy life. I decided to turn to a nutritionist for a complete and balanced meal plan and now I’m finishing my first week of this change.
I decided to stay away from all my negative thoughts and feelings about our new apartment and stop chopping this topic with my husband, so after all whatever happens with us in the future, at least I will be sure for myself that I did everything that I could.
I’m pretty sure that this year will be challenging too, even more than the last one, but this is something good. Challenges come to our life’s to change it in a good way, I strongly believe in this! Even in the worst scenario ( for example friend of mine just lost her kid due to a cancer… I really don’t know what to say to her now…it’s hard…).
All I want to say is that yes, life is hard… I experience a lot of shakings in my mood, doubts in my own abilities, but if you let all those feelings to take advantage of you the situation would become even worse.
I decided for myself that I’ll stop making all those big plans for everything and try just to have an idea of what I’m gonna do or where we’re gonna go and etc. I would like to be more flexible at the end of this year, more the type of person who’s trying to solve the problem, not to analyse it forever.
So this is practically my most bright new year’s resolutions. What about yours? I will be very happy if you share some of them with me in the comments below.
Have a great day and weekend!
xoxo
Yours,
ELL
Hello guys,
In the very end of this year I would like to turn back and think about of all the positive things that happened to us. I mean, yes, 2020 was a very hard year for all of the people in the world…some of us lost friends or family members, some of us lost their main income, some of us went through this year with other personal issues due or not to coronavirus… but instead of looking back with regrets… let’s be thankful for the lessons we learned and continue in the New Year with more positive thoughts!
I understand how hard could be that, but in the other way we won’t win anything if we stay on the negative side of the situation.
Whatever happens in the future with the spread of the coronavirus… let’s trick it with more flexibility, with calmness and more smiles 💖
First I would like to say a big Thank you to all of you, who read, like and are actually interested in my blog page! Thank you guys, I really appreciate it, this page was a dream that came true this year, because I was able to say to my self “ What are you afraid of?! Just do it!”
I’m not gonna make this post like the typical New Year’s resolutions, this year I’m just thankful… for all that things, that happened to me, to all the lessons I learned, to all of my friends and family!
2021 is a new chapter… you all are capable to do whatever you really want to! Yes, it’s not easy… but after all it’s worth it, believe me 😘
Thank you all for staying with me this year!
I promise to share a lot of new adventures with you in the next one 🥰
Stay healthy and positive!
xoxo
Happy New Year!
Yours,
ELL
Sometimes we all need to escape for the weekend and just do nothing.
That’s why I decided to give for my husbands birthday a little getaway from our daily routine as a present. And it was really nice and relaxing. We both need that for sure.
I highly recommend this place for a little spa getaway. It’s perfect for couples who doesn’t want to live the resort. The food, the view the people…everything was great!
If the situation wasn’t like that and we weren’t living in this pandemic world, probably we will travel to another place outside our country, but it is what it is and we were happy to spend the weekend just us two, no matter what is the situation outside.
So after all…we came to an agreement that we definitely should do it again, if we have that possibility… if the situation allows us that.
It’s nice to spend couple days with your husband like the good old times… 😎
Have a great weekend guys!
And if you can give yourself a little getaway…just do it, it’s worth it! 💖
xoxo,
Yours,
Ell
Hello guys, in this sunny autumn afternoon I’m thinking about our relationships and how sometimes we take our partners for granted without even noticing that.
Yes, with our busy schedules during the week and even weekends, somehow we stopped being romantic. We just go through our tasks and at the end of the day, we are so tired of that routine that we just turn Netflix or some YouTube channels and just fall asleep after. And did anyone actually notice that this routine is repeating again and again… and if we don’t wake up on time from this bubble we take the risk to destroy our relationships.
I’m not sure if we women notice that situation more often than men…, but sometimes it really hurts when you went through that conversation several times in your relationship and your partner still wakes up in the morning, knowing that you two are alone (the kids are not in your bedroom) and you could have some privacy and instead of hugging and kissing you, he takes his phone and open the newsfeed or Facebook…
I’m not trying to say that every day should be exciting adventure for you, because sometimes it’s really nice to just stay at home with your partner, instead of going out, and pour a glass of wine, turn the Netflix on…but let’s not get so comfy with that and try to pay more attention to your relationship. Do some new things for both of you, travel to new places, discover new things together…if we don’t make the effort to keep the flame of our marriage/partnership, believe me, it won’t last for long… In the times we live, into the quick liquidity relationships and hectic daily life…we have to at least try more often to spend some quality time with our partner.
So…after all…everything that matters is love. Love yourself, love your partner, family, friends….when we give love it returns to us…this is the circle of life 💕
Thank you all for reading my thoughts this afternoon, if you like it, you know what to do 😎
Have a great afternoon!
xoxo
Yours,
ELL
Hello guys, how are you? This couple weeks I feel not myself at all.
My little one starts to wake up at night again and not even crying but screaming during the night…I don’t know if this is the last teeth, just the “terrible two’s“ or the change of the season…maybe the mothers here who are reading my blogs could give me an advice how to proceed with that screaming and crying periods of “I want that/I don’t want it “… yeah…sometimes it’s hard to survive through the end of the day.
And on the next day you should be fresh and full of energy, because you need to go to work and etc. I’m not trying to complain, don’t get me wrong…I don’t know…just share my experience as a working mommy.
Because you know that it’s not only the happy pictures in the social media…everyone haves their own moments, right? We all see happy faces and clean houses and moms who looks like just got out of the magazine…but let’s face it, nothing of this is actually real and most of the time those people probably experience the same things like us.
And in the hard times with all that pandemic situation and upcoming cold season , if we don’t find our own happiness and happy place….nobody could be able to do it for us, right 😊
Sometimes I in person, experience a lot of hard times with my little boy. He’s turning 3 years next week and there is times when he becomes really fussy and frustrated for actually nothing… like for example the crises from last night “I want some water (he couldn’t reach the bottle by himself, he got angry) than started to scream “I don’t want water “…. all this drama in 3 AM…funny right?! And this recently happens often… I don’t know if that is normal or my kid is going through a phase…if you share your experience with me that would be very helpful guys ☺️
So, yes, right or wrong…rest or sleepy…we are all parents and we definitely need a break sometimes, after all we have rights too 😀
Thank you all for reading my blog today! Have a great weekend and see you soon 💖
xoxo
Yours,
ELL
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