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Why we have to be so meanโ€ฆ


Hello guys, hope you are doing well in this wonderful Friday at the beginning of the Summer.

Have you ever been in the situation when people are intentionally mean to you. Because Iโ€™ve been in a lots of that kind of situationsโ€ฆ and Iโ€™m wondering why we have to express our bad energy and feelings onto someone else.

Yes, we all have good and bad sideโ€ฆyes, we all feel down, unhappy and etc. sometimes, but what is the fault of the person in-front of usโ€ฆ

Why we have to be mean, jealous to the othersโ€ฆreallyโ€ฆ.is this the way to solve our problems?! Do this emotions actually help us to feel better?!

Why so many people are looking for the negativity instead of focusing on the positive side?!

I donโ€™t think I have a complete answer to this topic, what do you think about that?

It will be interesting to me to hear your opinion.

Thank you very much for reading my blog posts๐Ÿ’–

Stay on the positive side guys! Love always wins โ˜€๏ธโ˜€๏ธโ˜€๏ธ

Have a wonderful weekend!

xoxo

Yours,

Elly

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Internet vs. Reality


Hi guys, I hope all of you are doing well ๐Ÿ˜Š

Today I would like to share some thoughts with you regarding my personal observation during the past couple months. Yes, Iโ€™m going to write about this unfair difference between internet world and reality. A lot of the famous people I follow on Instagram lately shared their own opinion about how this โ€œperfect worldโ€ actually threatens our real one. And itโ€™s trueโ€ฆsad, but true, because we are all comparing our lives with the other onesโ€ฆeven when we deny that. For example I love to take pictures, when me and my husband are on a vacation somewhere Iโ€™m always begging him to make me some nice shotsโ€ฆheโ€™s always never happy about that fact and we always have a little kind of a fight aboutโ€ฆpictures.

Iโ€™m honestly saying that I donโ€™t use any photoshop or any other modelling apps of a kind to touch my pictures. I only use the Instagram filters and thatโ€™s allโ€ฆ, but when I saw friend of mine to moderate her picture before adding it on her page, I was like โ€œwhy?!โ€ . Do we need to look unreal in the virtual world or this is something that we kind of always wanted to look like that and now with all those programs we could add some touch ups on our virtual life.

this one is one of my favorite picturesโ€ฆand there is no filters on it ๐Ÿ˜˜

Sometimes I feel like all the other pictures on Instagram for example are much better than mine, rather that Iโ€™m trying really hard to get nice picsโ€ฆ, but than I just say to myselfโ€ฆโ€do I need this?!โ€ .

This is a condition actually that threatens a lot our generationโ€ฆto compare, to sneak into the others โ€œlifeโ€ and calm ourselves that we also have this โ€œperfectโ€ life. But this lifestyle isnโ€™t perfect at allโ€ฆto be a professional model or an influencer, you should always be โ€œperfectโ€ and this actually is very stressful and leads to a lot of mental stress even to some psychological problems.

Nothing perfect just us

Guys, live your life and enjoy your days! Donโ€™t try to be perfect for this picture, for this internet postโ€ฆfor anythingโ€ฆour generation needs more randomness and more realness.

After all, what is more โ€œperfectโ€, than reality?!

Thank you guys for reading my thoughts โค๏ธ

Have a great day to all of you!

xoxo

Love,

ELL

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My New Yearโ€™s resolution


1. Love being a momโ€ฆactually this past year just made me want at least another one baby

2. Less expectations actually means more fun and quality time

3. Healthy and balanced life is the key for joyful everyday living

4. Slowing down is not a bad thing

5. Stealing some time alone with your love one makes your relationship better and more stronger

Have an amazing 2022 guys!!!

xoxo

Love,

Ell

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Me than vs. Me now


Hello guys,

On this very special for me day I would like to share some thoughts with youโ€ฆ On this dayโ€ฆseven years agoโ€ฆ me and my husband started dating. Seven is very important number for me and I believe is my lucky numberโ€ฆIโ€™m born on 7th of April, my school number was 7 and etc.

Seven yearsโ€ฆ my longest and meaningful relationship everโ€ฆseven years ago I was just a girl who was looking for her greatest loveโ€ฆ seven years later Iโ€™m a woman whoโ€™s trying to keep this sparkle every single day!

But this is not the main topic today. Recently, me and my husband had a lots of misunderstandings between usโ€ฆ I caught him in couple liesโ€ฆand all this was connected with his best friend and his girlfriend. Long story short we had a serious conversation what marriage and relationship is and how some bad influence could ruin something that you have for so long, something strong and meaningful as your family. Yes, sometimes our friends are not as much friends as we are for themโ€ฆand that showed us clearly last couple days.

Iโ€™m honest person and always go into relationship/ friendship or so with honesty. This is extremely important for me to be able to build trust and fruitful relationship. But unfortunately not everyone in my life responds the sameโ€ฆit turns out that some people in our life that we used to call friends are notโ€ฆand that sometimes not only hurts, but betrays your faith in this people.

Of course I can forgiveโ€ฆ, but Iโ€™m truly not sure if I can forgetโ€ฆ

My previous meโ€ฆseven years ago probably would bye for thatโ€ฆbut nowโ€ฆI donโ€™t think soโ€ฆ I grow up and become much wiserโ€ฆ at least I believe so ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

So after all I wanted to share to you guys my advice. Never stop fighting for your happiness, love and the truth. All that matters in this complicated life is your own happiness!

Wishing you all amazing week!

Talk to you soon ๐Ÿ’–

XOXO

Yours,

ELL

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Life is all about choices we makeโ€ฆand stick to them ๐Ÿ’–


Hi guys,

Hope all of you are doing well. For the past couple months a lot has been happening and in the meantime everything is still the same ( in a good way of course)

You can stay at home or just enjoy the the rain outsideโ€ฆ itโ€™s up to you ๐Ÿ˜œ

Lately Iโ€™m trying to focus on my mental health and stability by practicing more yoga and I feel wonderful, fully positive and energetic after a session. Thatโ€™s why I decided to talk to you guys today and focus on the inside stability and how important is that for our health and life in general.

Sometimes you get passionate about kind of a sport and than it feels harder to stay on track and be able to make 2-3-5 workouts for a weekโ€ฆ, but here is the moment where you should push your self a little, because after couple months it will come naturally to keep your own rhythmโ€ฆand the same is happening with all other choices me makeโ€ฆ sometimes we are the one who are not giving them a chance to improve our lives.

All we need is ๐ŸŒž and a ๐Ÿ˜Š
Balance is the key ๐Ÿ’–

It doesnโ€™t need to be a strict plan that we need to followโ€ฆsometimes we need to let ourselves to be spontaneous, to learn to listen our inside voice.

Itโ€™s not about the perfect picture, or outfit or captured momentโ€ฆsometimes itโ€™s worth it just to enjoy your own time/day/ momentโ€ฆwithout thinking about whatโ€™s next on my listโ€ฆ just truly get your self in those moment and live itโ€ฆ๐Ÿ’–

Thank you guys, reallyโ€ฆthank you for being with me from the very beginning of this blog journey ๐Ÿ’–

Have a wonderful weekend!

xoxo

Yours,

ELL

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The terrible twoโ€™s


Hello guys, it seems like forever from my last post. Today is a very special day for me and I would like to share it with you ๐Ÿ’–

On this special day 2 years ago, I said YES to my beloved husband, best friend, partner and everything else what that gorgeous man means to me! And I never regret that!

Of course we had some problems, fights and all that bad energy things that could go through our lives, but that is probably inevitableโ€ฆ We had our bad moments like every other married couple and probably weโ€™re gonna have them again in the futureโ€ฆwho knows, but my point is to learn how to acceptโ€ฆ to accept the person in front of you with all his negative parts, because everyone has his own bad part. To try to focus more on your loveโ€ฆon the topic why you love this person, not why you are mad at him at this momentโ€ฆof course this is easy on a daily basis with our every day thingsโ€ฆ itโ€™s very hard when it comes to more serious things like lies, cheating and betraying the trust between two people in generalโ€ฆ in this occasions probably this is not your true half with whom you could spend a happy and joyful life.

There is periods between each couple, but the most important thing of having a healthy and happy marriage is to solve your problems with love and care, to look in the eyes of your partner and remember why you chose to say โ€œyesโ€ to this person exactly and also when something is touched with a positive energy, I strongly believe that that kind of energy is coming back to youโ€ฆand the oppositeโ€ฆif you start with a negative vibeโ€ฆall that is coming back to you!

So what Iโ€™m trying to say is that this world needs more love and care in general ๐Ÿ’–

There is and there are going to be a lotโ€™s of terrible twoโ€™s, fourโ€™sโ€ฆtentโ€™s and etc. Letโ€™s try to go through this periods with love and care to our partners. In my opinion, this is the right way to a happy life, marriage and relationship in generalโ€ฆ like they saysโ€ฆ โ€œuntil death do us apartโ€

Have a great day guys!

xoxo

Yours,

ELL

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Top 10 amazing places in Bulgaria


Hello guys,

Today I would like to share with you some really amazing places in my home country. Due to the past year…with all the lockdowns, coronavirus spread and travel restrictions we (me, my husband and our friends)decided to discover some โ€œhiddenโ€ places in our country.

Probably some of you know, some donโ€™t that here in Bulgaria we have small sea cost, we have mountains, we have a lots of mineral water resources, good wines and etc.

That practically makes our small and beautiful country year round travel destination.

For the winter for example…we have couple ski destinations like Bansko and Pamporovo, but a lot of the people donโ€™t know actually how beautiful Bansko is during the summer. That is what I discovered past summer and Iโ€™m pretty sure that weโ€™ll go there this summer again.

Bansko in the winter
But during the summer is sooo beautiful as well

We have really small sea cost comparing with our neighbour Greece for example, but that doesnโ€™t mean that we donโ€™t have pretty sights and breathtaking sunsets.

My heart was won by Veleka beach this past summer…such a beautiful place where the delta of Veleka river hits the Black sea. So at one side there you have the view of the river and on the other side the beach… amazing!

Veleka beach
Amazing view

On the other side, close to Veleka beach you could find one wild and extremely beautiful beach, called Silistar.

Silistar beach
The breathtaking view above Silistar beach

There is one more amazing place, I recently discovered, this place is called camping Zlatna ribka, right next to the well known city of Sozopol.

Camping Zlatna ribka
And… the breathtaking sunset there…๐Ÿฅฐ
One of the best beach bars there- Le Musch

So… we went from the winter through the summer, but there is another year round destinations with great SPA, food and wine experience. Me and my husband just came back from one of them called Wine and SPA complex Starosel. We loved that place…

Wine and SPA complex Starosel

Amazing place which combines hot mineral water, great wine, food and a lots of activities either for adults or for the kids.

Of course there is more places like Starosel, Midalidare for example is another wonderful wine and spa destination, not only for relax and some getaway but even for your dreamed wedding.

Midalidare estate
Amazing wedding party

Speaking of weddings I couldnโ€™t not mention our wedding in the magic little village Golyama Zhelyazna, right on the Sopotโ€™s dam. Itโ€™s not a coincidence that the place is called Heavenโ€™s bay or Rayski Zaliv ๐Ÿฅฐ

Night view
Sunset on the dam of Sopot

There is a lot more places in our small country like the one I mentioned before…with the variety of wineries and mineral water resources there is great places like Chateau Copsa, amazing SPA destinations like Hissar, Pavel banya, Banya village, right next to the town of Bansko and many, many more… so if I inspired you a little give me a tumb up and consider to visit our beautiful country in case there is no more lockdowns, travel restrictions and etc.

Riu Pravets Golf and Spa resort
Spa day during the winter โ„๏ธ
Chateau Copsa

Thank you guys for reading my story today!

Stay safe!

xoxo,

Yours,

ELL

Happy life, Health, Healthy life, Joy, Life, Lifestyle, Marriage, Parenting, Pertnership, Photography, Relationship, Soulmate, Travel, Womenโ€™s life

Late fall getaway


Sometimes we all need to escape for the weekend and just do nothing.

Thatโ€™s why I decided to give for my husbands birthday a little getaway from our daily routine as a present. And it was really nice and relaxing. We both need that for sure.

I highly recommend this place for a little spa getaway. Itโ€™s perfect for couples who doesnโ€™t want to live the resort. The food, the view the people…everything was great!

If the situation wasnโ€™t like that and we werenโ€™t living in this pandemic world, probably we will travel to another place outside our country, but it is what it is and we were happy to spend the weekend just us two, no matter what is the situation outside.

Beautiful nature of Bulgaria

So after all…we came to an agreement that we definitely should do it again, if we have that possibility… if the situation allows us that.

Itโ€™s nice to spend couple days with your husband like the good old times… ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Have a great weekend guys!

And if you can give yourself a little getaway…just do it, itโ€™s worth it! ๐Ÿ’–

xoxo,

Yours,

Ell

Confidence, Happy life, Health, Healthy life, Homemade food, Joy, Life, Lifestyle, Lockdown, Partnership, Photography, Relationship, Soulmate

Living in a pandemic times… how to avoid the panic and live a normal life instead


Hello everybody,

Iโ€™m writing today about this very painful topic from the beginning of this year, the COVID-19 pandemic.

Lately our situation here in Bulgaria increased and we are having more and more positive cases, so yes, nobody is pretty sure if we wonโ€™t experience another lockdown in the next couple months. So again nobody could plan anything and Iโ€™m not talking about some weekends getaways, but even Christmas holidays, New Years Eve and etc.

Iโ€™m wondering however what happened with the seasonal flu and viruses that were so common in this season, because everything that you could hear nowadays is COVID-19, all right, but what happened with the flu…

I donโ€™t want to go deeper in my thoughts about the line between the seasonal flu and the Covid virus and is there a line at all, so just wanna tell you guys to try at least to live normally, to eat more healthy food, to try to exercise more….living a healthy life is the first step of protecting yourself from all those viruses.

With the consuming of more vegetables and fruits we are increasing our chance not even to have a better immune system, but to feel better in our own bodies. In addition to that if we add some light exercises to our daily routine, that would help our metabolism to start working faster and to get rid of some extra pounds/kg. Doesnโ€™t that soundโ€™s good?

Trying to keep things in a normal way itโ€™s not always an easy job, but we could give it a try ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Iโ€™m that kind of person who always tryโ€™s to make the things look in a more positive way, so whatever happens in the next few months, no matter how many plans we have to reschedule just letโ€™s try to be more positive ๐Ÿ’–

Just keep your minds and bodies healthy, smile more and enjoy your time always, even if you have a bad day…do something for your self…something to make you feel better and happier!

Thank you everyone for reading my blog today!

If you like it, you know what to do ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

Have a great afternoon guys!

xoxo

Yours,

ELL

Happy life, Joy, Life, Lifestyle, Mommy time, Motherhood, Parenting, Photography, Relationship, Soulmate, Womenโ€™s life

Three years…time flies ๐Ÿ’–


Hello guys, Iโ€™m writing today, because I feel very nostalgic and happy at the same time. My little boy, turned three years couple days ago.

I still canโ€™t believe when this years passed…

For the all of you who donโ€™t know me, he was born prematurely in 35th week of my pregnancy. He was tiny little baby and now is one happy little boy โ˜บ๏ธ

I feel so thankful every single day, since I saw this little eyes, arms and feet…to be a mom itโ€™s the happiest thing that ever happened to me ๐Ÿ’–

Thank you, my dear son, for all those little moments every day, for teaching me how to rediscover the world with you…for choosing me for your mommy! I love you to the moon and back!

Thank you guys, for reading my story!

Have a great Sunday evening!

xoxo

Yours,

Ell