Category: New Year’s resolution

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Internet vs. Reality

Elitsa

Hi guys, I hope all of you are doing well 😊

Today I would like to share some thoughts with you regarding my personal observation during the past couple months. Yes, I’m going to write about this unfair difference between internet world and reality. A lot of the famous people I follow on Instagram lately shared their own opinion about how this “perfect world” actually threatens our real one. And it’s true…sad, but true, because we are all comparing our lives with the other ones…even when we deny that. For example I love to take pictures, when me and my husband are on a vacation somewhere I’m always begging him to make me some nice shots…he’s always never happy about that fact and we always have a little kind of a fight about…pictures.

I’m honestly saying that I don’t use any photoshop or any other modelling apps of a kind to touch my pictures. I only use the Instagram filters and that’s all…, but when I saw friend of mine to moderate her picture before adding it on her page, I was like “why?!” . Do we need to look unreal in the virtual world or this is something that we kind of always wanted to look like that and now with all those programs we could add some touch ups on our virtual life.

this one is one of my favorite pictures…and there is no filters on it 😘

Sometimes I feel like all the other pictures on Instagram for example are much better than mine, rather that I’m trying really hard to get nice pics…, but than I just say to myself…”do I need this?!” .

This is a condition actually that threatens a lot our generation…to compare, to sneak into the others “life” and calm ourselves that we also have this “perfect” life. But this lifestyle isn’t perfect at all…to be a professional model or an influencer, you should always be “perfect” and this actually is very stressful and leads to a lot of mental stress even to some psychological problems.

Nothing perfect just us

Guys, live your life and enjoy your days! Don’t try to be perfect for this picture, for this internet post…for anything…our generation needs more randomness and more realness.

After all, what is more “perfect”, than reality?!

Thank you guys for reading my thoughts ❤️

Have a great day to all of you!

xoxo

Love,

ELL

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My New Year’s resolution

Elitsa

1. Love being a mom…actually this past year just made me want at least another one baby

2. Less expectations actually means more fun and quality time

3. Healthy and balanced life is the key for joyful everyday living

4. Slowing down is not a bad thing

5. Stealing some time alone with your love one makes your relationship better and more stronger

Have an amazing 2022 guys!!!

xoxo

Love,

Ell

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Life is all about choices we make…and stick to them 💖

Elitsa

Hi guys,

Hope all of you are doing well. For the past couple months a lot has been happening and in the meantime everything is still the same ( in a good way of course)

You can stay at home or just enjoy the the rain outside… it’s up to you 😜

Lately I’m trying to focus on my mental health and stability by practicing more yoga and I feel wonderful, fully positive and energetic after a session. That’s why I decided to talk to you guys today and focus on the inside stability and how important is that for our health and life in general.

Sometimes you get passionate about kind of a sport and than it feels harder to stay on track and be able to make 2-3-5 workouts for a week…, but here is the moment where you should push your self a little, because after couple months it will come naturally to keep your own rhythm…and the same is happening with all other choices me make… sometimes we are the one who are not giving them a chance to improve our lives.

All we need is 🌞 and a 😊
Balance is the key 💖

It doesn’t need to be a strict plan that we need to follow…sometimes we need to let ourselves to be spontaneous, to learn to listen our inside voice.

It’s not about the perfect picture, or outfit or captured moment…sometimes it’s worth it just to enjoy your own time/day/ moment…without thinking about what’s next on my list… just truly get your self in those moment and live it…💖

Thank you guys, really…thank you for being with me from the very beginning of this blog journey 💖

Have a wonderful weekend!

xoxo

Yours,

ELL

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New year new challenges…

Elitsa

Hello guys,

How are you in this cold weather. Hope all of you are healthy and happy!

Today I would like to tell you more about how my year started. I decided that 2021 will be different for us, because of the all changes we made last complicate year.

So first I decided to turn into myself and start a really healthy life. I decided to turn to a nutritionist for a complete and balanced meal plan and now I’m finishing my first week of this change.

I decided to stay away from all my negative thoughts and feelings about our new apartment and stop chopping this topic with my husband, so after all whatever happens with us in the future, at least I will be sure for myself that I did everything that I could.

I’m pretty sure that this year will be challenging too, even more than the last one, but this is something good. Challenges come to our life’s to change it in a good way, I strongly believe in this! Even in the worst scenario ( for example friend of mine just lost her kid due to a cancer… I really don’t know what to say to her now…it’s hard…).

All I want to say is that yes, life is hard… I experience a lot of shakings in my mood, doubts in my own abilities, but if you let all those feelings to take advantage of you the situation would become even worse.

I decided for myself that I’ll stop making all those big plans for everything and try just to have an idea of what I’m gonna do or where we’re gonna go and etc. I would like to be more flexible at the end of this year, more the type of person who’s trying to solve the problem, not to analyse it forever.

So this is practically my most bright new year’s resolutions. What about yours? I will be very happy if you share some of them with me in the comments below.

Have a great day and weekend!

xoxo

Yours,

ELL

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The positive part of 2020

Elitsa

Hello guys,

In the very end of this year I would like to turn back and think about of all the positive things that happened to us. I mean, yes, 2020 was a very hard year for all of the people in the world…some of us lost friends or family members, some of us lost their main income, some of us went through this year with other personal issues due or not to coronavirus… but instead of looking back with regrets… let’s be thankful for the lessons we learned and continue in the New Year with more positive thoughts!

I understand how hard could be that, but in the other way we won’t win anything if we stay on the negative side of the situation.

Whatever happens in the future with the spread of the coronavirus… let’s trick it with more flexibility, with calmness and more smiles 💖

First I would like to say a big Thank you to all of you, who read, like and are actually interested in my blog page! Thank you guys, I really appreciate it, this page was a dream that came true this year, because I was able to say to my self “ What are you afraid of?! Just do it!”

I’m not gonna make this post like the typical New Year’s resolutions, this year I’m just thankful… for all that things, that happened to me, to all the lessons I learned, to all of my friends and family!

2021 is a new chapter… you all are capable to do whatever you really want to! Yes, it’s not easy… but after all it’s worth it, believe me 😘

Thank you all for staying with me this year!

I promise to share a lot of new adventures with you in the next one 🥰

Stay healthy and positive!

xoxo

Happy New Year!

Yours,

ELL