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Do we take our partner for granted?!


Hello guys, in this sunny autumn afternoon I’m thinking about our relationships and how sometimes we take our partners for granted without even noticing that.

Yes, with our busy schedules during the week and even weekends, somehow we stopped being romantic. We just go through our tasks and at the end of the day, we are so tired of that routine that we just turn Netflix or some YouTube channels and just fall asleep after. And did anyone actually notice that this routine is repeating again and again… and if we don’t wake up on time from this bubble we take the risk to destroy our relationships.

I’m not sure if we women notice that situation more often than men…, but sometimes it really hurts when you went through that conversation several times in your relationship and your partner still wakes up in the morning, knowing that you two are alone (the kids are not in your bedroom) and you could have some privacy and instead of hugging and kissing you, he takes his phone and open the newsfeed or Facebook…

I’m not trying to say that every day should be exciting adventure for you, because sometimes it’s really nice to just stay at home with your partner, instead of going out, and pour a glass of wine, turn the Netflix on…but let’s not get so comfy with that and try to pay more attention to your relationship. Do some new things for both of you, travel to new places, discover new things together…if we don’t make the effort to keep the flame of our marriage/partnership, believe me, it won’t last for long… In the times we live, into the quick liquidity relationships and hectic daily life…we have to at least try more often to spend some quality time with our partner.

So…after all…everything that matters is love. Love yourself, love your partner, family, friends….when we give love it returns to us…this is the circle of life 💕

Life is good, because there is you, right next to me!

Thank you all for reading my thoughts this afternoon, if you like it, you know what to do 😎

Have a great afternoon!

xoxo

Yours,

ELL

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One year down and forever to go…


I still remember the way my heart leaped when you got down on your knee and asked me to be your wife. Of course I said yes, and I’d say it all over again. Yes to you. Yes to this life we’ve made. A thousand times YES to our love!

On this special day last summer we said the official YES in front of our parents, relatives and friends…yes, everyone says the first one sometimes is the sweetest, but the sour one too. Our wasn’t the exception, but I truly believe that as many bumps we have on our road together as stronger we’ll stay as a couple and partners in this life…wasn’t that actually what people called marriage?!

It’s not always roses and unicorns, it’s not only dinners on the sea cost, watching the sunset together and enjoying each other company. It’s not only passion, love and sweet moments. I wish for us to keep going through all those moments together hand by hand, like through all happy ones too! The most important part is that I believe in us and in our love, I believe that we are able to resist the time and the difficulties and stay together still looking in each other eyes like on those day!

I love you, my darling and always will fight for our team!

Thank you all, for sharing this special day with me!

Have a great Monday!

xoxo

Yours,

ELL

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Relationships…what do we actually know about them


Hi guys, today I’m thinking about our relationships…the relationship with our partner, with our parents, kids, with ourselves even. What do we actually know and what do we actually do to keep them stronger. How well do we actually know our partner for example, does he/she still surprise you with some new info about his/her’s personality?

Nowadays is very complicated to keep the sparkle in your relationship, that little flame which makes butterflies in your stomach. Some people think that they know each other so good, they love each other, they support each other and suddenly one day they wake up in the morning to realise that this is not their life anymore,they are not on that page…people could change and one day this person you woke up with could be a stranger for you and this is scary, because for example 10 years ago you and him/her gave those beautiful vows in-front of each other and now you are two completely different people. You have kids, mortgage and bills to pay, the kids have their own needs and etc. And one day this fairytale ends, because you wake up one morning to see that you actually don’t know your partner anymore. Well probably there is worst scenarios, but most of the couples have experienced that little crisis in their relationships and the only reason that happens is because we take our partner for granted, because we don’t fight for that love every day, we let our current problems (job, bills, domestic problems and etc.) to be bigger than the feeling of joy and love to our partnership, yes, because one relationship is a partnership too.We could talk a lot at this topic, but my point is to tell you not only my point of view, but to encourage may be some of you to swallow your ego and to say “I’m sorry” or “I love you” ;”I appreciate what you do every day” to your partner TODAY…even for those of you who are in love with someone and he doesn’t know that…go ahead, express your feelings, tell that person you love him…and for some reason if he says “I can’t answer back to your feelings”, all right… so this isn’t your true soulmate and you need to know that information to go ahead with your life and find that real one …the love of your life, the answer to your dreams. We are the only people who is responsible for our own life and happiness, remember that! And never give up on love 💓

So this became a bigger blog and my point was actually to see what do you guys think about that, to share your experience with me in the comments below. Thank you to those of you who red it,who left me a comment and like and hope reading my page makes you smile at least once today 💕

xoxo,

Yours,

ELL