Joy, Life, Lifestyle, Pertnership, Photography, Relationship, Soulmate

Relationships…what do we actually know about them

Elitsa

Hi guys, today I’m thinking about our relationships…the relationship with our partner, with our parents, kids, with ourselves even. What do we actually know and what do we actually do to keep them stronger. How well do we actually know our partner for example, does he/she still surprise you with some new info about his/her’s personality?

Nowadays is very complicated to keep the sparkle in your relationship, that little flame which makes butterflies in your stomach. Some people think that they know each other so good, they love each other, they support each other and suddenly one day they wake up in the morning to realise that this is not their life anymore,they are not on that page…people could change and one day this person you woke up with could be a stranger for you and this is scary, because for example 10 years ago you and him/her gave those beautiful vows in-front of each other and now you are two completely different people. You have kids, mortgage and bills to pay, the kids have their own needs and etc. And one day this fairytale ends, because you wake up one morning to see that you actually don’t know your partner anymore. Well probably there is worst scenarios, but most of the couples have experienced that little crisis in their relationships and the only reason that happens is because we take our partner for granted, because we don’t fight for that love every day, we let our current problems (job, bills, domestic problems and etc.) to be bigger than the feeling of joy and love to our partnership, yes, because one relationship is a partnership too.We could talk a lot at this topic, but my point is to tell you not only my point of view, but to encourage may be some of you to swallow your ego and to say “I’m sorry” or “I love you” ;”I appreciate what you do every day” to your partner TODAY…even for those of you who are in love with someone and he doesn’t know that…go ahead, express your feelings, tell that person you love him…and for some reason if he says “I can’t answer back to your feelings”, all right… so this isn’t your true soulmate and you need to know that information to go ahead with your life and find that real one …the love of your life, the answer to your dreams. We are the only people who is responsible for our own life and happiness, remember that! And never give up on love 💓

So this became a bigger blog and my point was actually to see what do you guys think about that, to share your experience with me in the comments below. Thank you to those of you who red it,who left me a comment and like and hope reading my page makes you smile at least once today 💕

xoxo,

Yours,

ELL

Confidence, Life, Lifestyle, Photography

My life…my choices…my moments

Elitsa

Hello everyone, thank you so much for joining me in my new adventure 💖

In my previous post I shared some info about my life (if you didn’t read it, now is the time you could do it 😛) , now I’m gonna introduce myself a little bit more. My name is Elitsa, but you could call me Ell’s or Elly, I’m from Sofia, Bulgaria, I currently live there and I decided to start this blog,because this is something I really wanted to do last couple years, but I wasn’t maybe brave enough to start, or wasn’t the right time for that. Nowadays I feel much more confident to start and just type some of my thoughts, desires, choices, travel experience, parenting and etc. That’s my point…if you wanna do something…just do it, don’t worry about who’s gonna like it, who’s gonna criticise you and who’s gonna support you…don’t be afraid to start…even if you fail, you can stand up and continue fighting for what matters to you and what makes you feel happy! Life is too short, literally … so fight for you dreams and don’t let the fear or some kind of insecurity to take that dream apart from you!

Be brave my dears and smile to this world, let your minds and souls be full of love and the Universe will answer you back the same way 💕

Born to stand out, not to fit in 🦩

Lifestyle, Motherhood, Relationship, Travel

All you need is love…and summer

Elitsa

We all need a little piece of summer in our everyday life 💖

And a little gesture of love

And some reason to smile…

Those pure moments of happiness…when you see your little boy smiling and how your husband’s eyes glowing

Yes, I love those little our moments 💕

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Lifestyle, Motherhood, Photography, Relationship, Travel

Life as we know it

Elitsa

Today was the day when I finally realised that I could turn my hobby into something much more exciting…and yes, I decided to start this blog… so this is my first release…

Today I thought a lot about our life after the big step and I’m not talking about marriage, I’m talking about the decision to have a baby. For the people who doesn’t know me, I’m a proud mom of 2,5 years old baby boy…and yes, that 2,5 years was difficult…not only for me and my body, but for my personal relationship with my husband. We weren’t married when the baby was born, but our relationship changed a lot…and the question is who’s didn’t. These days I red a post for two people that I swore in God was crazy in love…and guess what, after their beautiful baby girl was born, they announced to all their followers that they are no longer together. Yes, when the baby comes everything is changing,right? There is no longer long dates, nights out, vacations and etc, except if you don’t have strong help so called also as grandparents. But even then…you two…are no longer just you too and if both of you don’t work extremely hard to keep that part of your own flame as a couple…everything goes apart. Probably some of you won’t agree with me and say that it’s just that faze, but let’s face it, nothing stays the same after your little monkey comes at this world. And I’m saying this in a good way, because we need that challenges, because we all need to grow up together and build that strong family we only dreamed about in the past.
This is life, either you accept the challenge or either fall in the deep rabbit hole…life as we know it, so fight for your dreams and follow them with hearts full of love.